
The solitaire gardeners philosophy
My blog site is called solitaire gardener because mostly that’s what I am, a solo gardener. Yes I’ve had some help over the years but pretty much the food I produce is done on a solo basis.
I’ve always craved a connection with nature and have generally had what I believe is a healthy scepticism for our commercial food system. While fresh strawberries in December may be amazing – I think we lack an appreciation for our food when it’s available from the supermarket all year round.
I love the idea of locally grown and seasonally available produce, and what can be more local than your own veg patch.
My issue has always been the fact that those around me don’t share my vision quite so passionately 😊
Hence growing veg mostly on my own.
The pivot here though, is that I don’t see solo gardening as a disadvantage – it’s actually liberating, enjoyable and fulfilling.
Here are some of the reasons why:
- You’re the boss
- You dictate what you grow
- You dictate how much you grow
- Progress happens at your own pace
- You are in control
- You don’t need to impress anyone
- You learn under your own steam
I know gardening solo may seem overwhelming, but keep those bullet points in mind as they will help guide you through the next few frantic gardening months.
Take control
Now is the time to start taking control by deciding what you are going to grow.
We all know that late winter feeling of wanting to grow everything, everywhere, all at once. But now is your chance to really forge your own path and ensure you are not overwhelmed.
What to consider
I’ve written a couple of blogs that may help you decide what seeds to sow in late winter – but the lists given are by no means exhaustive. I’ll give you a quick overview in the next section, but you can also read more here What Seeds To Start In February and here Herb Seeds to Sow Indoors in Late Winter
The important thing here for the solo gardener is to not let your seed staring in particular get out of hand.
So below are some tips to help shape the growing season ahead.
- Focus on what you know you will eat
- Focus on filling the space you have not, the space you would like to have
- Think carefully about more vertical growing if space is limited
- Think carefully about how you are going to store your produce. Unless of course you intend to share with family and friends. In which case trust me after the 20th courgette (zucchini) they may not be so keen to accept your bountiful gifts.
- Consider the time you have available and be realistic
Seed staring ideas
As I suggested in the previous section I’ve written a couple of blogs around what you might sow this time of year indoors in the UK.
But as promised here is a round up of all those mentioned and a couple more you might want to consider, again this is not an exhaustive list and is tailored to more temperate growing zones.
- Aubergines
- Tomatoes
- Cabbage
- Radish
- Peppers
- Carrots
- Onion
- Leeks
- Beets
- Chilli
- Peas
- Broad beans
- winter Lettuce
- Basil
- Sage
- Thyme
- Rosemary
- Spinach
You can also start celery (start indoors), and parsnips direct if you ground isn’t too waterlogged.
It’s so tempting to want to grow everything, but my suggestion when you’re first starting out or gardening solo is to pick 5 different seeds to start indoors now. Sow them, nurture them, prepare the space outside where they will grow and mature. When each batch of seeds is established and about an inch (2.5 c.ms) – only then sow succession batches. This ensures that you:
- Are dealing with small enough batches to handle.
- Can concentrate your efforts
- Have succession plants ready in case your plants fail when planted out
Obviously you do you, and garden in your own way – but this is about trying not get overwhelmed and keeping you solo veg growing journey manageable.
You decide how you garden – Minimal setup, minimal stress
My top tip for basic decision whether it’s a garden, allotment or your own land is to keep it as simple at first. Life is complicated enough without making growing your own food stressful, especially when gardening on your own.
This is about removing anything that intimidates or is unnecessarily complicated. You don’t need the perfect set up – you need a workable one.
For your outside planting space you will need to consider some of the following:
- Planting direct into the soil – garden beds
- raised beds
- a mixture of raised beds and garden beds
- a compost bin or pile
- watering -water butts, hoses and watering cans
Once you’ve considered these basics, work with it for a while and amend as needed. Remember that daily attention and observation can be worth more than a tonne of fancy gardening gadgets.
While gadgets can be fun and there’s no denying they can sometimes make life a little easier – they are not the be all and end all. You can garden perfectly adequacy without them.
The idea with a any garden is to sort your basics, and get into a rhythm that fits with your lifestyle. If you work full time and only have evenings to tend your garden, then be realistic about the amount of plants you can look after. This is not defeatism, it’s realism and will stop you getting overwhelmed.
So many times I have gotten ahead of myself – thinking it’s fine I’ll make time. When that time doesn’t materialise I’ve gotten frustrated and despondent about my progress. Far better to scale it back a bit, celebrate and enjoy your successes.
Building gardening momentum
As a newer gardener you need to build a rhythm and momentum. The daily gardening habits you build can often be more important than the actual technique.
This is how I would recommend you begin that journey :
- Start small
- wins build energy, over committing drains it.
- Grow what you eat and what you enjoy
- your motivation lives in the relevance of the food you decide to grow
- Expect imperfection
- don’t compare yourself with perfect social media channel were all the veg looks perfect and the person delivering the message looks amazing – that’s not the reality, it’s curated for views
- Check your plants daily
- This will not only teach you how each plant develops, but will also allow you to deal with any problems early doors. Gardening is no different to live – the sooner you deal with a problem the better the outcome
- Sow in small batches
- As I mentioned earlier – this will help you plan and stay in control
And finally ……
Gardening on your own can be an absolute joy – you have the freedom to do things your own way. Find your own groove, and remember small harvesters are meaningful, you are free to learn in your own way, and small regular tasks build momentum.
Take your time, be kind to yourself, and you will grow food that is nourishes both your body and soul.
Let me know in the comments your top tips for solo gardening – what helps and what hinders? I’d love to hear your thoughts.
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